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It’s Gemini Season: Why do people dislike Geminis?

As another successful Gemini season comes to an end, and we welcome the Emotional Gangsters of the zodiac, Cancers, I’d like to take the time to reflect on a pressing issue. Each time I say I’m a Gemini, for those into zodiacs, it’s either met with horror or indifference. Okay I’m being dramatic, but ya’ll don’t like Geminis and I want to know why!

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Opening the Ice Chamber: What Shoes to wear to Sneakerball 2019 | Nike Edition

I’m giving you a Sneak’er…Peak, get it! Haha….No…..okay…. A sneak peak into what sneakers you’ll be sure to see during this year’s Sneaker ball. If you’re already feeling overwhelmed and have no idea which sneakers you’ll be wearing, you're definitely not alone! Check out this quick guide to help narrow your choices and get you excited for this awesome charity ball! This is the Nike edition, other brands will be featured so stay tuned!

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How I Conquered my Fear of being too Dark for Photos + Tips for Your 1st Photoshoot

By universal sycronicity, at the exact moment I was writing this post, BLACK-ISH aired a new episode (Season 5: Episode 10) about Colorism. Diane (Bow and Dre’s youngest daughter) due poor lighting appears darker in her school class photo compared to the rest of her classmates. Diane also has the darkest complexion in her class and in her family. This sparked outraged amongst her family about how her school should be aware of different skin tones and ensure photographers use proper lighting to accommodate all shades. It’s such an embarrassing conversation to be in the middle of, and in the end, Diane simply stated she didn’t want to be different. I related to that so much having had similar experiences being singled out due to something you can’t change. Due to this same instance, being too dark at times to be seen in photography without proper lighting, I feared having professional photographs taken. Yet, in true living out my purpose fashion, I conquered this fear, and learned some tips along the way.

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Daily Manifesting: Creating a Portable Vision Board

It’s another brand new year and people are hitting the gym, setting goals, making plans for it to be another amazing life changing year. The new year is also a time for Vision Board Parties! I’m sure you’ve seen vision boards all over your timeline, if you haven’t been invited to a vision board party no worries neither have I! As you know, you don’t need to attend a party to create your own vision board and I’ve created ways for you to carry and create one at anytime!

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6 Lessons I learned after Re-reading the Alchemist in my 30’s

Recently, I was having a drink at one of my favorite Sushi spots which I used to frequent often. There was a new bartender providing me with service who was very sweet. As I was seated at the bar, I began to read a book (not the Alchemist) in which he asks what book I was reading. I tell him the name then I proceed to tell him I'm actually re-reading the Alchemist as well. The bartender mentioned he wasn't too much a fan of the book due to it being too literal, you already know the Shepard Boy is going to find his treasure, the end. Well, after schooling him about this book, he didn’t want me to leave! Check out some of the points I discussed with him.

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Breast Cancer Awareness: Make it Hot Pink all Year Round

I unintentionally did this photoshoot in September, and got my edits in time to remember that October is Breast Cancer Awareness month. It came just in time, my mother is a breast cancer survivor along with many other women all over the world. The color pink is a beautiful way to show appreciation for survivors, awareness, and remembrance for those that’ve transitioned. Read more as I live colorfully all year round with Pink!

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Melanin in Orange: Skin tone Henny straight with a splash of Orange

The combination of melanin and the color orange is another match made in heaven. When it comes to colors that compliment skin tones, think opposites attract. Orange is considered a “warm” color on the color spectrum, it evokes warmth because it reminds us of fire, heat, and the sun. Colors that compliment darker skin complexions will be on the warmer side of the color spectrum and lighter examples include; yellow, red, and of course ORANGE! Check out what I’m serving as I live colorfully with Orange!

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Sun-kissed in Yellow

Yellow is a color that allows me to confidently flex my style and complexion! Some may steer away due to it drawing too much attention, but it’s too beautiful of a color to not wear due to what people may think or say! It’s 1 of many colors that I love and I’m not afraid to proudly wear! Plus, you have to be the light that you want in return, lets shine bright with YELLOW!

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Caribbean Carnival Beginner's Guide: Barbados Cropover Carnival 2017

On this episode of Carnival Chasers: I’m addicted we will explore a good throwback to last year’s Cropover on the beautiful island of Barbados! Ya’ll know I love a good island, with a beautiful beach surrounded by ocean. What’s even better is when carnival is happening at the same time! Check out my 2017 Cropover Carnival Vacation!

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29Rooms Chicago: Interactive Instagrammable Art Installations

I love interactive art exhibits, living in NYC, you could always find one to attend. Especially after a good brunch or happy hour, it’s nice to roll into a colorful interactive art exhibit where you’re tossing sprinkles or a giant breast all to capture a good boomerang. As more Instagrammable interactive shows roll into Chicago, I’m covering almost all of them in my series; Good Times Chicago, Instagrammble Exhibits. Check out my review of 29rooms Chicago by refinery29.

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